Jas 1:19
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak,
slow to wrath:
Jas 1:20 For
the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
How slow is our
wrath? Seriously, how fast do we become
wrathful?
Anger or Wrath
is an intense emotional response. It is an emotion that involves a strong
uncomfortable and emotional response to a perceived provocation, hurt or
threat. Anger can occur when a person feels their personal boundaries are being
or going to be violated. Some have a learned tendency to react to anger through
retaliation as a way of coping. (wiki)
Let me ask you this?
Have you ever had any road rage? Even a little bit? Road rage truly has become
an epidemic. The anger we feel when driving and encounter what we perceive as
anger inducing situations causes us to react in ways we shouldn't. We yell, we
swear, we drive unsafely, we let that anger fuel us and you know what? Many
times things we get upset about from other drivers are innocent mistakes,
unintended swerves, a hurried lane change from an instinctive reaction to get
into the right lane for a turn, a total miscalculation of the time it takes to
stop… there are a lot of mistakes made innocently, I know- I've made lots of
them. Yet when we encounter *stupid* drivers we instantly feel we have the
right to be angry, to get wrathful. How
slow are we to wrath behind the steering wheel of our cars?
There are many
situations that bring wrathful feelings upon us- having to wait extra long in
lines, at drive throughs of fast food places, at tardy waiters/waitresses, at
slow moving people when we are in a rush (I've even gotten perturbed at my
elderly dog- much to my shame- for not moving fast enough when I need to rush
to do something(important somethings). It's not my dog's fault I'm in a rush
and she can't comprehend I have to run to get to grandma before she falls on
the floor. We get angry in many, many
situations and most of them have the root cause of us being self-centered. Did
the need to get to grandma bring out my selfishness? No, not all anger is
selfish but a lot of it is. We are in a rush simply because we don't want out
precious time wasted in many situations.
That time we believe is being wasted could be spent in prayer, couldn't
it? Instead we use it to get wrathful, to get angry and fueled by that anger
allow it to rile us into doing things we shouldn't (swearing, etc)
Also, how many of us
are swift to speak and slow to hear? Preferring to speak not listen? How many
of us have to fight not to interrupt those talking to us because we are in such
a hurry to add our point of view, our two cents to the conversation? We believe
our need to speak supersedes the one talking to us because what we have to say
is so incredibly important it might just take away the need for the other to
speak at all. We understand, we know
things, we have opinions that matter greatly, we, we, we!
God knows how important it is for us to be slow to speak, fast to hear and slow to anger. God knows and wants us to know and comprehend fully. If we want to work the righteousness of God, we have to pray for these words of the greatest wisdom to become a part of our lives- so ingrained in us it is natural for us to be slow to speak, swift to hear and very slow to anger.
Please, Lord, we would work Your righteousness! Live in us, let us do Your will, all through Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, now and FOREVER!
God knows how important it is for us to be slow to speak, fast to hear and slow to anger. God knows and wants us to know and comprehend fully. If we want to work the righteousness of God, we have to pray for these words of the greatest wisdom to become a part of our lives- so ingrained in us it is natural for us to be slow to speak, swift to hear and very slow to anger.
Please, Lord, we would work Your righteousness! Live in us, let us do Your will, all through Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, now and FOREVER!