Become forgiving

Right after Jesus says 'amen' as He gives us the manner in which we are to pray He says this--


Mat 6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.


Remember back in the prayer where He said this--


Mat 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.


Obviously He felt a need to emphasize this part a bit.


If WE forgive others their trespasses- our heavenly Father will forgive us. We need to be forgiven don't we? We've talked about it before but obviously it's something we can't stop talking about. We can't afford to ever forget that we need to forgive others, as much as we need to be forgiven. Forgiving others for…

What exactly are we to forgive others for? When is the last time anyone did something to hurt you? I'm not talking seriously hurt you, but when is the last time someone was perhaps a touch thoughtless in their words, or lack thereof? When is the last time you felt the least bit slighted? Maybe it was a stranger giving you a strange glare. Or maybe it was a friend forgetting to call you. Possibly it was loved one who just didn't listen when you wanted them to. The thing we need to remember is just as we are to pray daily and to use the manner of praying Jesus teaches us, we need to understand that forgiveness is an ongoing EVERYDAY concern. Also, forgiveness isn't something as simple as forgiving once and then it's done. The simplest of slights we take offense at, the tiniest of hurts might need to be forgiven over and over again and that's NO joke. You might think it's easy to forgive the little things and harder to forgive the huge betrayals but that's not always the case. No, I'm not saying the huge betrayals are easy to forgive, what I'm saying is the little betrayals, the little hurts aren't often easy to forgive. We might detest the fact that we have to forgive someone over and over again. We might believe that it means we can't forgive them because we can't forget what's been done. We might be waiting for some sort of apology, or appeasement and even then that real heart felt forgiveness might elude us.


Daily we forgive. Daily, hourly, minutely we forgive. We have to be in a state of perpetual forgiving of others because in truth, don't we need to be in a perpetual state of forgiveness by God?


No, I'm not saying that our every waking moment has to be spent forgiving, but we need to be ever ready to forgive. Seriously. Is there ever a time we shouldn't forgive? Not according to our Savior.


Being ready to forgive is understanding that constantly we will be put in the position to choose to forgive or not to forgive. As we feel the pain of the slights we face in our day to day lives we really do need to become forgiving.


Others will hurt us make no mistake about it. It could be as simple as ingratitude when you go out of your way to do something for someone. It could be a selfishness revealed as a last roll you reach for is snatched away be someone else. You could catch a glimpse of someone seeming to disdain you. You can see the disgust cross the face of someone you ask to help you with something and know in that look it's the last thing they want to be doing. No one I know lives in a world where all things are picture perfect. Everyone I know lives in a world filled with selfish beings that find it easy to hurt and hard to forgive.


By the grace of God we will learn to become forgiving because He says…


Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.


If we don't become forgiving we cannot be forgiven and we need to be forgiven because we fall far short of being as God would have us be. We need to be forgiven by our wonderful Savior, He wants to forgive us and He will forgive us.


Forgiveness for the teeny tiny things is more important than we really realize.


Forgiveness is no longer holding a person accountable for the sin, the wrong, the slight they've committed against us. Forgiveness is Jesus forgiving us for all the sins, all the wrongs, all the slights we've committed against Him. We need forgiveness, we need it desperately because our selfishness pulls us away from God, our self-centeredness pushes God out. We see this in so much we do when we think of ourselves before others in so many ways.


By the grace of our Lord and Savior may we become forgiving. May His words become real to us as we pray our daily prayers seeking to be forgiving knowing by the grace of God we are forgiven.


Mat 6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.


In His amazing Love as we seek to be with Him in the kingdom!


Amen.