Can we truly LOVE
anyone at all without God being our source of love? Seriously? Can we? Think about it, most of
our ideas of love is a self-serving love. Even when we sacrifice to love there
can be self-serving because of the pride towards self for sacrificing. You say you have no pride in sacrificing?
Praise God! It's not for me to judge anyone, God will do that- He knows the
heart.
I do know from
personal experience that my comprehension of love is very limited. I say I love
others, I tell others I love them. What am I really saying to them when I say I
love them? They are a part of my life that I don't want to live without. I care
for them, even though I might not be perfect at caring for them. My love is
flawed at best.
When others tell me
they love me, I know they care for me, I know they want me in some part of
their life and I know they would miss me should I go away. I know they are choosing to love me, because
they are capable of choosing not to love me, yes, even family can choose not to
love other family members- love is always a choice.
God chose to love us
even at our worst as evidence in the sacrifice He made in allowing God with Him
to become His declared Son and to be made flesh. He allowed His declared Son to
become human and in becoming human He took on the suffering of humans, the
temptations of humans, the death of humans.
God created us out
of His love for us, and His love for us has kept Him from destroying us. God's
love for us has created what we long to give to those we love- a pain free,
happy existence. We can't give that to
those we love, it's not in our power to do so. God can do this, and He has done
this and it is a PROMISE for all who love Him, for all who choose HIM. We are PROMISED a pain free, happy existence.
The promise is future beyond this world, the promise is heaven, the promise is
eternity in love. This is the hope, this is the good news that our SAVIOR came
to give to us, and to show us the way through Him.
God does want
something in return- something from us, God wants us to love Him, to choose to
believe in Him in all things. We must believe that God is the source of all
real love, not our made up, imagined, very flawed love. We must comprehend that
we are NOT able to love any others- not our mothers, our fathers, our husbands,
our wives, our children, we are not able to love ANY others as He can love
them. When we choose to love HIM we choose to give over to Him all we are. We
give Him all our loved ones knowing He can love them more than we ever
could. We give our 'all' to God and God
takes care of our 'all' in HIS way, not our way.
More on this later,
all by the GRACE and MERCY of our LORD and SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST! Now and
forever… AMEN.
'Affection
God’s Demand
Yielding one’s
affection to the lord may be viewed by the Christian to be a most difficult
task, yet the Lord is concerned with One’s affection more than with any Other
matter.
He demands him to present his affection wholly
to Him and let Him lord over it. The Lord asks for first place in our
affection. We Often hear people talk about consecration, but this act is simply
the first step in one’s spiritual walk. Consecration is not the destination of
spirituality, it is but its beginning. It leads a Christian to a sanctified
position.
In a word, without
consecration there can be no spiritual life.
Even so, nothing is
more paramount in one’s consecration than is his affection. Whether or not this
has been yielded determines the truth or falsity of consecration. Its acid test
is affection. Relatively easy is it for us to hand over our time, money, power,
and countless other items; but to offer our affection is exceedingly difficult.
This is not to imply we do not love Christ; perhaps we love our Lord very much.
Nevertheless, if we grant first place in our affection to another and relegate
Christ to second place, or if we love someone else while loving the Lord, or if
we ourselves direct our affection, then what we have offered is not considered
consecration for we have not yielded our affection.
Every spiritual
believer appreciates the necessity for affection to be offered first. For
without that, nothing really is offered. God the Father demands absolute love
from His children. He is unwilling to share Our heart with anyone or anything
else: even a He should receive the bigger share, He is still not pleased. God
demands all our love. Naturally this strikes a fatal blow to One’s soul life.
The Lord bids us part with what we Ourselves cling to, for it divides Our
heart. He asks us to love Him totally and to utterly follow Him in love: “You
shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with
438 The Spiritual
Man
all your soul, and
with all your mind” (Matt. 22.37). “All” denotes every ounce of it for the
Lord. He enjoins us to reserve not one tiny particle of affection which we
ourselves can direct. He calls for all. He is a jealous God (Ex. 20.5),
therefore He does not allow anybody to steal the love of His children. Yet how
many dearly beloved ones have their claim on the believer’s affections besides
God!
Perhaps an Isaac, a
Jonathan, or a Rachel. Wherefore God insists we lay our beloved ones on the
altar.
He cannot tolerate
any competition. Our all must be on the altar. This is the Christian’s way to
spiritual power. And shortly after the sacrifice is laid on the altar—nay,
after the last sacrifice is duly placed thereon—fire will come down from
heaven. Without the altar, there can be no heavenly fire. How, then, will one
ever have the power of the Holy Spirit if he does not take up his cross and
offer everyone whom he loves to the Lord? This is not an empty altar, for fire
consumes the sacrifice on it. What can the fire consume if there is no
sacrifice?
Brethren, neither our mental understanding of
the cross nor our endless talk about it will give us the power of the Holy
Spirit; only our laying everything on the altar will.
If we continue to
harbor some secret rope uncut, if our heart secretly retains some oxen and
sheep and an Agag, we will still not experience the manifestation of the Holy
Spirit’s power in our lives.
How much the work of God has suffered because
of our failure to let the Lord be the Lord of our affections. Many parents
cling to their children for themselves and permit the kingdom of God to incur
loss. Countless husbands or wives are unwilling to make sacrifice and thus the
harvest is left ungathered. Numerous Christians are so attached to their
friends that they sit back and let their brethren fight at the front alone. It
is deplorable how many think they can love their dear ones and the Lord
simultaneously, not comprehending that by loving these, they cannot love the
Lord.
We persist in living
in the soul if we cannot say with Asaph: “Whom have I in heaven but thee? And
there is nothing upon earth that I desire besides thee” (Ps. 73.25).
We cannot but stress
the significance of our loving the Lord with our whole heart. Nothing satisfies
His heart as does our love. The Lord looks not for our laboring for Him but for
our loving Him. '
Excerpt - The
Spiritual Man by Watchman Nee