Jer 17:5 Thus saith the
LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and
whose heart departeth from the LORD.
How often are we told we
need to trust in each other? That trusting in each other is a good thing.
Yet God tells us
differently.
Psa_118:8 It
is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.
Psa_118:9 It
is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes.
People will say to you-
"Don't you trust me?" And you
are left to either say, "Yes.", "No.", or
"Maybe." If you say , "Yes." then the person asking is
satisfied, happy even, that you believe in them. If you say, "No." or
"Maybe." then the person asking isn't quite so happy any more. People
want you to believe them, they want you to trust them, and yet often times
various situations will arise that keep people from following through on their
word. Very legitimate excuses arise for a broken trust so that we don't call it
a broken trust at all. We accept the excuses because not to makes us seem
unable to forgive, and not very understanding at all.
Has anyone every broken
your trust? Probably more than one person and probably more than one person you
love. A parent, a spouse, a friend, a child all of these can't help but break
our trust because our very imperfect life forces it to happen. I'm sure most of
us, if not all of us have broken the trust of others. You may want to say that
you haven't, and you may want to force yourself to believe that, but in truth
circumstances will not allow any person not inflicted by mental impairment to
be perfectly trustworthy from birth to death. They may try, and only
extenuating circumstances interfere with their ability to do so, who knows, I
sure don't.
What I do know is
this- God tells us to trust in HIM, not
in others. God wants us to LOVE each other, but put our TRUST in HIM. God alone will NEVER break our trust- the
trust we place in Him for life eternal through His only begotten Son, Jesus
Christ our Lord. No matter how wonderful
and sincere our intentions to each other are, Satan will always try to
interfere causing us to break a trust no matter how little the matter is, no
matter how tiny the trust broken. It could be something as simple as telling
someone you'll be on time to dinner and not being on time. You may have
forgotten which is perfectly understandable, believe me, I am big time
forgetful. However, even though you forget out of innocence it is still a trust
broken- unintentionally, understandably but there it is… a tiny trust
broken. We must put our trust in CHRIST,
we must put our trust in GOD, we have to put our trust in the HOLY SPIRIT, and
realize that by not trusting in man we are not loving them any less.
We have to LOVE in spite
of not being able to trust wholly.
Should we not trust in
others at all? No, we need to believe what people say, but at the same time
acknowledge to ourselves that people no matter who- are infallible and we
shouldn't let this truth destroy our spiritual life, our walk with Christ, our
belief in His love. It's not just the tiny trusts broken, but the huge trusts
broken that can destroy our spiritual life is Satan has his way. If we BELIEVE
that we can't trust in man but TRUST IN GOD ALWAYS, that is a protection, a
spiritual protection God will give us.
There are people I can say
I trust, and what I trust is that to the best of their ability they will always
do what's best for me, they will always love me, they will always act in ways
to reveal that love. I trust them, but by the grace and mercy of God, I will
always trust in God first and foremost.
And if any of these people break the trust I've placed in them- truly I
must not let it destroy my Spiritual life- or my belief in them and the hope
they can find in Christ. I must put the heartache and disappointment I feel -
however great it may be- on Satan because it is Satan who causes all the broken
trust in the world. And Satan will use anyone He can, deceiving them, abusing
them at their weakest to hurt all that he can in any way that he can.
Some might say that God
lets them down, that God lets a lot of people down all the time, but that's not
true. Our idea of what is best for us is
nothing like God's idea, He sees the end from the beginning we only see through
that glass very, very darkly.
1Co 13:12 For
now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part;
but then shall I know even as also I am known.
1Co 13:13 And
now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is
charity.
Please, Lord, please
bless us and keep us in Jesus Christ our LORD now and forever! Help us to place
our trust in YOU always!