Mat 5:31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
The cause of fornication.
Fornication-
FORNICA'TION, n. [L. fornicatio.]
1. The incontinence or lewdness of unmarried persons, male or female; also, the criminal conversation of a married man with an unmarried woman.
2. Adultery. Mat 5.
3. Incest. 1 Cor 5.
4. Idolatry; a forsaking of the true God, and worshipping of idols. 2 Chr 21. Rev 19.
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Save for the cause of fornication. If a married man or woman commits adultery then they may be divorced- but other than this there is NO cause for divorce. Simple NOT enjoying the company of your married partner any longer is not a reason for divorce. Let's read the OLD law of divorcement-
Deu 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Deu 24:2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
Deu 24:3 And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
Deu 24:4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.
Some uncleanness- the world here for uncleanness is…
From H6168; nudity, literally (especially the pudenda) or figuratively (disgrace, blemish): - nakedness, shame, unclean (-ness).
1. pudendaplural of pu·den·dum
Noun: A person's external genitals, esp. a woman's
If a husband found uncleanness in his wife- obviously it can't be nakedness because a husband and wife are allowed this privilege- so figuratively if they found some disgrace, some blemish the man could divorce his wife. This left it open to so many possibilities for divorce. A blemish… can you even imagine. A woman gets a freckle that the husband doesn't like- he could divorce her! You know that's not much different than it is today. We can divorce a person for any reason we like- we just have to say we're incompatible and what exactly does that mean? It means we just don't get along with each other any more. That could be ONE person not getting along with the other even if the other does everything in their power to please them. We have NO real binding contract any more, none whatsoever. And guess what, they didn't in the Old Testament times, the times before Christ, either. Is it any wonder at all that Jesus once again explained the TRUE meaning of God's word? This all goes so much deeper than just marriage between a man and a woman. This symbolizes God and His church, God and His people!
Jer 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.
God's people committed adultery! God's people can choose to worship other gods and when they do they are committing adultery! There is NO way God would frivolously divorce His people, no way!!! This was a SERIOUS offense. To believe that God would use fickleness as a reason to divorce His people is to misunderstand God completely! Is it any wonder we as married people should NEVER divorce save for adultery? If we believe it's fine to divorce each other for any little reason, then we have to believe it's fine for God to divorce Himself from us for any little reason.
Let's read more...
Mar 10:2 And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.
Mar 10:3 And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?
Mar 10:4 And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.
Mar 10:5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.
Mar 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
Mar 10:7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
Mar 10:8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Mar 10:9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
For the hardness of your heart- this was the reason that they had been allowed to divorce so frivolously because they didn't have their hearts right! There hearts were hard, and a hard heart is a heart that isn't fully open to our Savior's love. When we harden our hearts we are pushing God out of our lives.
These words- hardness of your heart- means this:
sklērokardia
sklay-rok-ar-dee'-ah
Feminine of a compound of G4642 and G2588; hard heartedness, that is, (specifically) destitution of (spiritual) perception: - hardness of heart.
Destitute of spiritual perception! Being UNABLE to perceive GOD! People hardened their hearts and in doing so they can no longer perceive God's love! Unable to perceive God in His full truth God allowed the people to have their way to because they were too HARD hearted to perceive what marriage between a man and woman really meant.
No longer would our Savior accept a hard heart- no longer would divorce for frivolous reasons be allowed.
From the beginning God made man and woman- a pair that would procreate, a pair that would stay together as one, a pair that would LEAVE their parents to join with one another. Two that would become ONE joined by GOD. A spiritual joining that if God joins NO man can separate.
The idea that we can be separated from God is very frightening! Separated from our Creator, our Redeemer, our Sustainer! Loving God- longing to be ONE with God through the grace of our Lord and Savior who makes the ONENESS possible (makes ATONEMENT for us), this is LIFE. We only have real LIFE in our God, in our Savior, in the Holy Spirit!
Is it any wonder at all that God wants married couples to stay together as one?!
If God's people separate themselves from God they are committing spiritual adultery.
If a man or a woman separates themselves from their husband or wife by taking ANOTHER husband or wife, they are committing adultery.
Separation- something together coming apart. Something that is two becoming one and then becoming two once again.
We don't ever want to be separated from God!
And we should never want to be separated from our marriage partner.
Yes, divorce is allowed when there is fornication, why? Because God will NOT join with a people who have separated themselves from Him and gone with other gods. God does not force people to stay with Him. People are allowed to choose to separate themselves from Him, Satan chose to separated Himself from God. The price that is paid for those who choose to apostatize from their Creator, their Sustainer, their Redeemer, their God is very high- eternal death, it will be as if you never were. Why? Because the truth is, we CANNOT survive eternally without God, it's just not possible. We can try all we want to come up with our own plan to be saved and live eternally but nothing we do will work, nothing. We cannot LIVE without God. People think they can because they really believe this life here and now is real living, they don't understand this is just a stepping stone. This isn't REAL life, we are living under the weight of sin, suffocating under sin and people call this life. Life is in Jesus! Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Mat 5:31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
By the grace of God may we never leave our Savior, may we NEVER leave our God, may we stay true to Him now and always!
In Him always and forever!
Amen.
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