Mat
19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his
wife, it is not good to marry.
Mat
19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save
they to whom it is given.
Mat_19:12
For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and
there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs,
which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is
able to receive it, let him receive it.
1Co
7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried
careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the
Lord:
1Co
7:33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world,
how he may please his wife.
1Co
7:34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried
woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and
in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she
may please her husband.
1Co
7:35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare
upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord
without distraction.
1Co
7:36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his
virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what
he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
1Co
7:37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no
necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart
that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
1Co
7:38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that
giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
For the
Kingdom of Heaven's sake…
Ever since
I can remember I always wanted to be married, to have babies, to have a family.
Throughout the years occasionally the thought would come to me about what I
would do if I never married. I can remember telling my father at my baptism by
immersion that I was so glad he came to see me get baptized (he didn't commit
himself to coming when I invited him). I was glad because if I never got
married, this was like his attending my wedding. No, I wasn't under any
delusion that I'd just married God through baptism, not in the slightest. The
emphasis was on how important a day it was for me, and how glad I was he was
there witnessing my choice to live for God. He saw me as I went under the water
and rose up again to newness of life in Christ. The joy I felt was
overwhelming. I couldn't stop smiling, I couldn't stop being thrilled to show
outwardly my choice to live for God. I'm relating this story to mention that
the thought was there- the possibility of my never marrying. Yet still, I
desired marriage, prayed for marriage. Set my heart on various eligible men in
the small church I belonged to- none of which desired me in any way. Can't say
that I blame them, I've never been much of a 'catch' in the looks department
and in the personality department either. I'm a strange one for sure.
Getting
back to the study… 'some' would make themselves eunuchs- I'm assuming mentally
and emotionally, not physically- for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake. These people
would choose to give up the life of marriage so they could live for God only,
and not have the responsibility, the duty of caring for a family. Their
affection, their time would not be divided between family and God. They
wouldn't have to make a choice ever for one over the other.
Being
married I know all about having to make this choice many times and it is a very
hard one, being pulled to please my husband or called to serve my God. Truly, if one is CALLED to be so, if one can
contain themselves, they are better off living solely for God. I've NEVER been
one of those people and I never will be, at least not that I can imagine.
For the
Kingdom of Heaven's sake…
Dedicating
our lives to this end- married or not married is something we need to do.
Having faith in the word of God, trusting in the words of our Savior, knowing
the reality of the Kingdom of Heaven as something to be desired greatly, as a
lifelong aspiration is paramount to living for God. The better world, the
perfect world, the world without all the awfulness- this is our hope and it
will never be found here on earth not until it is an earth cleansed by fire,
purged of all sin by God and God alone. Christ is going to return, He promised
and His promises never fail, He cannot lie. Christ is going to return and when
He does, He is going to call all those who are His to meet Him in the air. The
dead in Him will be called from their graves, those alive in Him will be
changed from mortal to immortal and rise to meet Him in the air. We rise up to
meet Him, and from there we are taken to the Kingdom of Heaven!
1Th
4:13 But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them
which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.
1Th
4:14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also
which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.
1Th
4:15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are
alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are
asleep.
1Th
4:16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with
the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ
shall rise first:
1Th
4:17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with
them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with
the Lord.
1Th
4:18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
Rev_20:6
Blessed and holy is he that hath part in the first resurrection: on such the
second death hath no power, but they shall be priests of God and of Christ, and
shall reign with him a thousand years.