Let me ask
you a question. When you love someone are you to serve them? Seriously, are you
to serve those you love? Maybe you're saying it depends on what you mean by
serving them. What I mean is let's suppose the Savior was walking upon earth
again (not going to happen - we were told He would return in the same manner He
left - all eyes could see as He ascended.) But, let's just suppose Jesus were
to knock on your door, enter your house and sit down on your couch. Would you
serve Him? Would you desire to know if He needed anything and if you could help
Him in any way? Would you want to see to any needs He had? Feed him, get Him
fresh clothes, allow Him to use your shower to wash if needed? Would you offer
Him a place to sleep if He wanted to nap? I think if you're a Christ follower
you'd want to do anything He asked of You, that you would serve Him. Do you
think you'd complain under your breath, muttering even if it's just inside your
head, that doesn't Jesus know you're busy right now with something and your
needs should be taken into consideration before being asked to serve in any
fashion?
I'm going
to ask again, when you love someone are you to serve them? Seeing to their
needs before your own? Not buying into the take care of yourself first before
you take care of others or you won't be able to take care of them. Wait, what?
Yes, if we neglect our vital needs of living (whatever they may be for your
particular existence), we are going to stop being able to serve others. Anyone
who starves themselves to the point of sickness and death, just because they
can't stop serving others even long enough to put a crumb in their mouths, well
that person has taken things a bit too far. It takes seconds to put crumbs in
your mouth, seconds to drink some water. Anyone who has ever taken hours to
prepare a huge meal for family and then watches as it is consumed in mere
minutes, knows how quickly people can eat.
We need to put others first while taking the opportunities when they
arise to tend to ourselves. We value ourselves way too much, and way too often.
We don't like stepping out of the comfort zones we've surrounded ourselves with
all in the name of self-preservation.
1Ti
6:1 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own masters
worthy of all honour, that the name of God and his doctrine be not
blasphemed.
1Ti
6:2 And they that have believing masters, let them not despise them,
because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because they are
faithful and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These things teach and exhort.
Servants
need to honor their masters- this is the
will of God. Servants need to honor their masters even if they are unbelievers-
this is the will of God. Servants should not despise their believing masters
because their masters are not choosing to serve them, but serve them because-
this is the will of God.
I don't
know of any servant/master relationships today. I do know employee/employer
though and it's along the same lines as servant/master. I do know that wives
and husbands, children and parents, younger and elder - all these are
relationships and it's the same bottom line for all of them. Serving.
Sometimes
the master will serve the servant, but this isn't something we are ever to
strive for- being the one served. IF we are the one who needs to be served, we
need to be very gracious to those serving us.
We need to serve those serving us with prayer, kindness, gratitude,
thankfulness.
Remember
this-
Mat_20:27
And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant
Mat_23:11
But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.
Mat_24:46
Blessed is that servant, whom his lord when he cometh shall find so doing.
Joh
13:3 Jesus knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands,
and that he was come from God, and went to God;
Joh
13:4 He riseth from supper, and laid aside his garments; and took a
towel, and girded himself.
Joh
13:5 After that he poureth water into a bason, and began to wash the
disciples' feet, and to wipe them with the towel wherewith he was girded.
Joh
13:6 Then cometh he to Simon Peter: and Peter saith unto him, Lord, dost
thou wash my feet?
Joh
13:7 Jesus answered and said unto him, What I do thou knowest not now;
but thou shalt know hereafter.
Joh
13:8 Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered
him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me.
Joh
13:9 Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also my
hands and my head.
Joh
13:12 So after he had washed their feet, and had taken his garments, and
was set down again, he said unto them, Know ye what I have done to you?
Joh
13:13 Ye call me Master and Lord: and ye say well; for so I am.
Joh
13:14 If I then, your Lord and Master, have washed your feet; ye also
ought to wash one another's feet.
Joh
13:15 For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done
to you.
Joh
13:16 Verily, verily, I say unto you, The servant is not greater than his
lord; neither he that is sent greater than he that sent him.
Joh
13:17 If ye know these things, happy are ye if ye do them.
We are to
serve, ever serve, ever seek to serve.
Php
2:14 Do all things without murmurings and disputings
And we are
to serve in love, not begrudgingly. We need to ask for forgiveness, over and
over if needed, if we find ourselves murmuring and disputing (even in our
thoughts) when we are called to serve another. By the grace of God, by the
power of the Holy Spirit we are to stamped down the rising self-server in us,
and instead give praise when we are called to serve. God's will be done,
always!
Through
Jesus Christ our LORD, our SAVIOR, now and forever!
Amen.